Get some gear that can vastly improve your daily life as a POTSie. Many of these are just generally thoughtful good gifts for a chronically ill person.
Cooling Scarf! This doesn’t afford me long walks in the hot sun, but it’s great for short ones. Helps with easing headaches and taking the edge off the heat. Sometimes the dog needs me to take him outside in the middle of hot weather, or I need to get into a hot car.
Rice Heating Pad and Hand Warmers! Rice filled handwarmers and heating pads are great. My feet are almost always freezing, unless they’re swollen red hot radiators. I pop in my owl heating pad into the microwave every night and put it at the end of the bed. Helps with all the other random muscle aches I get too like coat-hanger pain. Here’s a great no-sew heating pad DIY from unsophisticook (skip the fragrance), and many more heating pad DIY’s on Pinterest.
One Year Wiser Gratitude Journal. I treated myself to this book last year. (Careful in gifting this, since it could come across as diminishing a person’s struggles.) My therapist kept telling me to write down a few things regularly that I was thankful for, but it didn’t happen consistently until I got a dedicated little book. Finding things that I can still be grateful for is good for my mental health, and it’s a great way to highlight my better days.
Pill Case! If you need to take pills (like midodrine) multiple times a day like I do, this is a winner. It took me a lot of time to find a decent BPA free one. Unlike other ones I’ve tried, this comes with an outer case that doesn’t pop open leaving pill confetti inside my bag. I arranged into a rainbow to channel some Lisa Frank… I do what I can.
Water Bottle! Investing in a quality water bottle seems obvious given the immense number of liters you need to be drinking. This is a great BPA free stainless steel insulated one, free of a metal taste you’ll find in some cheaper ones. The great insulation keeps your electrolyte drinks whatever temperature you prefer. Love.
Heart rate chest strap monitor. For exercise, this keeps me in a safe range. It’s way too easy for my heart rate to get way too high. I got a hot pink Polar FT4 heart rate monitor. Chest strap monitors are generally the most accurate heart rate sensors you’ll get, and the readout is sent to wristwatch, where you can set an alarm at a given heart rate you don’t want to exceed.
Heart rate and oxygen fingertip monitor. Also known as a fingertip pulse oximeter. For emergencies and flares, because the above chest strap monitor takes time to get on, and doesn’t measure your oxygen saturation. This was hard to spend the money on, but I tried cheaper models that just wouldn’t take a reading during an attack when my blood flow to my extremities is very poor. Pop this on your finger, just like the ones at the ER and spot check your pulse and oxygen. This helps to gauge how bad an attack is and when it’s time to get help.
Notebooks! For daily health records, I insisted on getting something that cheered me up to look at for the monotonous and somewhat dispiriting task. I note the gritty details of my food, drug, activity, sleep, etc. every day. I also sum up each day rating both my physical and mental health separately from a scale from 1 to 10. This helps to identify general trends as I look back on my health. I consider keeping these records a necessity. Decomposition notebooks by Michael Roger.
Coloring Books! Maybe these are considered passé by now, but I still love mine. When I want to zone out for a little bit and think less, these are great. A great accompaniment is a bundle of quality color pencils like my favorite Prismacolors from my artsy days (bold, smooth, layerable colors). Makes a big difference.
House Plants! Get an air filtering, robust houseplant. I spend a lot of time inside, and bringing in live greenery really improves the space visually. It’s good for mental health, with the added benefit of some air filtering. Try a dracaena, English ivy or a peace lily. These are hard to kill and low maintenance, only needing water about once a week, making them great choices.
Salt Pig or Salt Crock! Easy access to salt for a pinch or measuring spoons. A POTSie can get a lot of use out of this. You could just use a cheap container on hand, but this is a luxury item… a treat if you will. The overhang does help keep dust and debris out a little better. My favorite chef Alton Brown explains why you need a salt pig. This is a great gift along with a nice bag of salt.
Salt shakers! Whatever you’re into, there’s probably a corresponding salt shaker. For something you’ll have to be using all the time, make it fun. Also, since you’ll be refilling it all the time, make sure it’s easy to refill.
Vanicream products. People with the most severe allergies love the Vanicream products, and have gotten me hooked. Free of fragrance, lanolin and dye. I now use their sunscreen, moisturizing skin cream, and vaniply ointment at all times.
Zip pouches! These things make an easy grab for your bundle of emergency meds and supplies. The last thing you should have to do when an attack hits is dig through your bag or purse in desperation. I have one that holds my fingertip pulse oximeter, and emergency meds including my epipens. These things wear out, and cheerful new ones are always welcome gifts.
Beautiful pillows, throws and blankets. How much time do you spend on the couch? Maybe best not to dwell on that, but the point is you’ll probably get a massive amount of use and appreciation of quality pillows and blankets you love. Indulge in soft luxurious materials of your choice. Machine washable is probably best for obvious reasons. Bright and cheerful or soothing calming colors. Whatever makes you happy. (If it’s a gift, make sure it’s a material the person isn’t sensitive to.)
Car window tinting. Get ceramic window tinting on your car. It keeps your car cooler and with heavier tints you get less strain on those dilated pupils. Darker tints may need a medical waiver depending on your state’s laws. This was one of the best things I’ve bought. Now even in 100 degree weather, my little Mazda can keep me cool. Before the ceramic tinting, this was not possible.
Vitamix. Or another quality blender. This has massively improved my diet (and my hubsie’s). It was tough to drop the money, but we got a refurbished one and considered the large boost in nutrition we’d get- pretty priceless. This thing is essentially being used every day, and makes the little food processor I was using before look like child’s play. Smoothies the way they are meant to be- creamy smooth. I put chard or kale in every smoothie I make and mix up the other fruits and veggies I drop in, and somehow they’re delicious. They are easy to consume, easy on my stomach and healthy… who am I? I must sound like a Californian cliche. The reality is that my body can use all the nutrition it can get, and this blender is delivering.
Remote thermostat. Regulate your temperature exactly where you are in your home, just take this little thermostat wherever you go. I got a Honeywell Portable Comfort Control. A prerequisite for this portable remote thermostat is a particular digital thermostat (kind of like the main hub and brain of your HVAC). So we had to also upgrade our main thermostat, so I installed a Honeywell VisionPro. A benefit of the main thermostat upgrade is the ability to connect it to Wi-Fi, so you can precool or preheat your place before you get home using a smartphone app.
Reverse osmosis water purification system! These were way more affordable than I had initially assumed, and I wish I had gotten one much sooner. Depending on your water district and your local pipes, your water might contain elements and chemicals including chromium 6, arsenic, barium, copper and lead. Reverse osmosis is one of the best ways to remove these chemicals, and no Brita and PUR water filters won’t do the job. I really love APEC’s ESSENCE ROES-50, which costs about $200. If you’re not ready for this investment, get one or two 5-gallon BPA-free jugs with a bottom spout to fill up at your local water store or station (like Glacier).
A healthier mattress. If you have memory foam anything including pillows, mattresses and toppers, get rid of them and replace with low VOC healthy materials. Even the healthier, certified foams still outgas fumes. I love my upgrade to a Berkeley Ergonomics mattress, but if you’re severely allergic to latex and wool, Shifman and McRoskey have quality options. I write about my mattress saga so you don’t have to have one: The Hunt for a Healthier Mattress.
More things to gift a chronically ill person:
Cooking and/or groceries. Most cooking and food prep involves plenty of standing and uses up a lot of precious energy. Find out what they can eat, pick up some groceries and make them some meals for the week. Frozen pre-made meals are the best, since they stay fresher (especially for someone trying to have a low histamine diet).
Clean up session. Tidying up the house, washing and gassing up the car, doing the laundry, etc. These things seem simple and mundane, but they can be a huge burden on a sick person, especially when they’re in a flare.
Amazon gift cards. (Plus an Amazon Prime subscription if they don’t have one.) Having Amazon deliver household staples, random sundries, clothes, and nearly anything with free 1-2 day shipping is like having a personal delivery service. This is amazing to have when I can’t make it out to a real store. Besides necessities, a good treat is being able to catch a newly released movie from my couch.
Gift card to their local pharmacy. Medicine costs add up, even with decent copays. Most of us are on a hefty list of prescriptions. Last year my $15 copays easily added up to over $100 a month… and that’s with great health insurance. Having a little extra money for these necessities can be immensely helpful for someone who isn’t financially secure.
At-home massage. If someone is sensitive to smells and has a hard time getting out, this can be a dream come true. Let the masseuse know not to bring pungent oils or fragrances, and instead use another option like coconut oil or whatever’s safe. They bring the table, the music and their skills. Set up inside your home, in your yard, wherever you’d like!
Video Games. Hear me out… this highly depends on the person. I’m not a gamer, but I’ve enjoyed some Wii games like most. My brother, who is a real gamer, brought me a huge selection of video games. It’s never something I would’ve gotten into myself, and some of the games I really loved! I do believe there are games out there for everyone. Video games are a great escape when my body is limp and aching. It’s more engaging than zoning out watching Netflix, but much easier than trying to read a good book. Sometimes it can be difficult to zone out, so something that is more distracting and engaging is a big win.
Photo book or memento. One of the best gifts I ever got was from a best friend who made me a small and intricate scrapbook with photos from some of our best times and trips together. I treasure my photo books from my past. Sure sometimes it’s bittersweet, but mostly I’m happy to be able to reminisce and know I’ve had some great times in my life. It hasn’t all been terrible. I’ve also had some great happy moments during my chronic illness. Last year I was able to achieve my dream of visiting Portland. It was better than I could’ve imagine, and afterwards I made a very thorough Mixbook. This more than any album gives me hope that I’ll be able to feel that good again. It’s hope.
A donation! Another absolute favorite gift of mine is when family and friends donate to causes that are supporting essential research to my condition. In my case, that’s Dysautonomia International. If your loved one has POTS, consider a donation to Dysautonomia International of any size.
Tips! Yeah, it can be tricky to shop for us…
Know if they have any fabric preferences. Some fabrics might now be really uncomfortable for your friend, thanks to all the random sensitivities these conditions can create.
Skip fragranced products and soaps. Synthetic fragrances aren’t great for anyone, but even natural ones can be a trigger for someone with mast cell issues. Know specifically what they tolerate and like, otherwise just skip it.
Be picky with jewelry. If you’re looking at jewelry for someone, again know what they like and tolerate. I’m not into wearing heavy jewelry anymore, because I find it tiring and burdensome. I’m also much more sensitive to nickel now, so cheap rings and earrings irritate my skin and make me itch. Maybe they can do a cotton friendship bracelet, and a simple charm they can put on their favorite chain.
Do you have another great gift or gear idea? Please share!